Friends Replies To Me Feeling Low about myself

I wrote - Sometimes I struggle to feel that I have self worth and I'm equal to everyone else and am a good enough human with worth and value. Based on some people's seeming judgements that only able working people are worthy and only people that "have their life together". Some people don't seem to understand me or understand that people could be different in some way.

My Facebook friends really touched me and made me feel better. 

Angela - The only posts I ever see from you are the sweetest and kindest things. You are an asset to society by simply existing. Nice people are a rarity these days. Anyone who can still show kindness in an unkind world is beyond valuable.
Don't ever let anyone make you feel inferior or useless- keep being you.

Kimberley - You are loved.   I see you.

Karen - This repeated pattern of this feeling I addressed when I lost my job and people made me feel useless as I was not working and earning enough. I stopped this pattern by addressing I had no choice on the illness I had and then this disease that caused a disability was WHY I found my new WHAT could I do not WHAT I cannot do. This healing process took a few years. People
Who told me I was useless as I didn’t work and have a professional career are now not in my life

Rosie - That’s so awful for you. No you’re worthy. You have a pulse bleed like others can and are very important to your loved ones. Too often people are judgemental as. In time you could be able to work. Your still young Emily 😎💖

Tanel - You are worthy. You're one of the sweetest person I know on Facebook

Jo - The only opinion that matters is your own. 🫶🏼

Leonel - You are above them all, you  don't judge people you understand them,
That's something a lot of people don't have.
Blessings my friend

Cathy - I struggled with the same thing for years. I had extreme acne going back to my school days. Other girls that I'd known for years and thought were my friends, all changed towards me when I started getting acne. I would speak in the group and they would visibly make eyes, laugh at me and literally close me out by turning their backs on me. I cried everyday morning and night for years. I'm a kind, forgiving person with so much to offer as a friend. I look back and wish that I'd been stronger, but life at home was difficult too. I know my worth now and I feel sorry for those girls who mocked me and made my life hell, but it taught me to love myself now in my later years. If people treat me badly,  then they are not worthy of my love and friendship; simple as. You are a beautiful human being. I can feel the light you shine. Be kind to yourself. Say nice things to yourself and appreciate that you are unique. There is only one of you in this universe. You are a divine Spark and you deserve happiness and joy in your life.  Be the best version of yourself and do whatever makes you happy, because that will surely lead you to higher vibrations and opportunities in life. I sometimes complain to my husband, I'm not happy with the way I look and I wish I had a better figure and better health. But he reminds me how beautiful I am inside and out and that I have a body and a life to live. So I live my best days and just focus on the now in the moment. Society and media paint these wonderful pictures of movie stars and their lives and try to make women live up to high ideals. That's all bollocks anyway. Follow your dreams hun and be your authentic self. There's no bigger frequency than that.

Mary-Rose - You're Amazing! On your own unique journey,and you get to decide to own your worth, practice self love and value your own opinion above others! YOU got this, comparison is toxic,don't buy into the trap. Keep shining bright !🌪💙🌪

Pamela - Don't listen or take " other ppls"   idea of your worth. Know your worth. And have you  met ppl?  They're awful..hugs.

Brown - you seem to be a nice sweet girl and ofc you're worthy, i'm pretty sure you'll manage to overcome anxiety and overthinking

Geneva - God created each person unique and different in some ways I believe for special purposes.  You're genuinely a kind hearted sensitive woman to everyone you meet!  There will ALWAYS be people we come in contact with who think they're better than we are but the truth is they are Not.  When you come across someone who you feel is judging you just remember you are amazing have talents they don't have and will never be able to understand.  As my grandma used to say...rise above and keep shining 🌟

Sue - You are here to be you not what others think you should be. Your power is knowing that and enjoying your life. As for your worthiness, being equal, good enough, of value… all of that is within you, your power,not listening to others, JUST LISTENING TO YOU. Only you can do that … only you. Wish you well. 😊❤️

Yvonne - You are a living part of the creator you are source energy in the flesh how can you be less than anyone, when you my sweet friend are everyone. Because you are the creator is experiencing human existence through you. You are a worthy, powerful being. Sending you love

Jack - You’re Perfect!
You are a beautiful creative soul!
You are an amazing singer and writer!!

You can do anything you put your mind to, just follow your heart ❤️

Love Simba - Oh honey I been treated and feel the same way you do all my life, even though I'm older now and have learned to just be happy with myself, and have realized I'm capable of more than people made me out to be, just in my own way, not how people expect me to be, it still torments me everyday how people have made me feel all my life, it's like a nightmare over and over in my head, even though I'm happy in my own bubble, I'm still petified to be around people alot, because I'm afraid that people are going to make me feel that way about myself again, I just can't deal with it anymore, so I end up isolating myself most of the time, the only advice I can give you is to just focus on yourself and what makes you happy and try not to let people bring you down, you are a wonderful person and don't let anyone make you think you're not, and I really believe having a animal companion really helps alot, my puppy dogs are my world and make me feel so loved and valued.

Jennifer - We all  do  but believe in yourself  and  love you always don't mind people's  this world is  corrupt people's are mean crazy   but  be careful and stay safe let  God  be a part of your life  he will never leave you alone blessings and blessings beautiful queen

Robert - You are very worth of love and respect

Sandi - Your worth the gift your living ..do it good as you can .don't worry your beautiful person

Maria - Your beautiful and a very sweet girl Angela is so right in what she wrote.

Kathy - I have the same problem Emily.

















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