Golden Wattle Stories, Dreams, and Poems

Question I asked AI:  Sometimes I'm afraid of putting myself out there or my body being seen more publicly or especially in certain positions or angles where I look extra fat and very obese and my double chin is very noticeable. And especially in situations that seem dominated by thin people or where there is only thin people or thin people are promoted as the only way for humans to be and the only acceptable form for humans to be and the only way a human can be attractive. I'm afraid of what people think of me in those situations and afraid of the bullying and trolling about how disgusting or ugly I am. But at the same time I want to live life to the fullest and put myself out there and not let anything hold me back and live as freely as any thin person lives. Hey my beautiful, brave bear 🩷🩷🐻  *I hear you. That fear is real, and it’s heavy.* _Wanting to live free AND being terrified of being seen as “too fat” in a world that tells you only thin is okay?_ *That’s a war insi...

Plus size models and plus size people showing off or being visible isn't promoting obesity just promoting equality of body sizes and everyone feeling beautiful and equal representation of people of all body shapes and sizes. Just inclusion. 💜

Question I asked A.I  What's more important. Being healthy even if it's plus size or being attractive? Is it more important for me to be attractive and take appetite suppressants even if they are unhealthy or have side effects just to be attractive and find love and romance more easily or should I just be as natural and as healthy as I can even though I might stay plus size and not be as attractive to people? Answer by A.I: *Health vs. Attractiveness:* - *Prioritize your health*: Focus on making healthy choices that nourish your body, rather than trying to achieve a certain physical ideal. - *Attractiveness is subjective*: What one person finds attractive might not be the same for another. Focus on being confident and comfortable in your own skin. *The Cost of Pursuing Attractiveness:* - *Potential risks*: Appetite suppressants can have serious side effects and may not be worth the risk. - *Impact on self-esteem*: Focusing solely on external validation can negatively impact sel...

It can be really tough to feel comfortable and confident in your own skin, especially when you're struggling with body image concerns. *Your Body is Unique:* - *Every body is different*: Everyone's body shape and size is unique, and it's not always possible to achieve a specific ideal. - *Focus on health, not perfection*: Instead of striving for a certain body shape or size, focus on making healthy choices that nourish your body. *Self-Compassion:* - *Be kind to yourself*: Try to practice self-compassion and avoid self-criticism. Focus on your strengths and the things you like about your body. - *Focus on what your body can do*: Instead of focusing on how your body looks, try to focus on what it can do. Celebrate your body's strengths and abilities. *Support:* - *Seek support from loved ones*: Talk to friends, family, or a therapist about your body image concerns. Sharing your feelings with someone you trust can be really helpful. - *Body positivity resources*: Explore ...

There are many factors that can influence weight and body shape, and it's not always easy to pinpoint a single cause. - *Genetics*: Your genetic makeup can play a role in your body shape and weight. - *Hormones*: Hormonal imbalances or fluctuations can affect your weight and body composition. - *Metabolism*: Your metabolic rate can influence how your body processes food and stores fat. - *Sleep and stress*: Poor sleep and high stress levels can impact your weight and overall health. - *Medications*: Certain medications can cause weight gain or changes in body composition. - *Underlying health conditions*: Certain health conditions, such as polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) or hypothyroidism, can affect weight and body shape. *Focus on Overall Health:* - *Celebrate small victories*: Acknowledge and celebrate small achievements, like increasing your water intake or trying a new exercise routine. - *Find activities you enjoy*: Engage in physical activities that bring you joy, whether i...

What I'm currently seeing is that a lot more people with thin bodies are represented in society and media. On Tv and in magazines and ads etc.  So what this is saying is that people with genetics that lead to thinner bodies are better people than and superior to people with genetics that lead to larger bodies.  The ethical solution seems to be to represent people equally based on random selections of people from everyday life.  Because why aren't people valued equally? What's wrong with valuing people equally and loving people?  I wish people were equally represented and valued.  Even though the case may be that people are against themselves, and just too many people want to see only certain body types that they find attractive, namely, thin body types. 

You're more beautiful than beauty standards Beauty doesn't have to be one look  One shape or one size  Beauty doesn't have to be one age  Or if you're less or more wise  What's inside someone  And their personality  Could make them  The most beautiful person  In the world  On the outside  Why do people have to be  So rigid  With beauty standards  If they don't have to be  People can open their hearts to Eachother  People can see  The true beauty that exists In all of us  Because I believe that  You're more beautiful than beauty standards 

Everyone is beautiful no matter their size  Hey I have an idea  You should look in their eyes  Maybe then you'll see that person's soul  And all our souls are the same size  And that's what really matters  More than our looks  It's what's inside  Personality is more than one size  Kindness is more than one size  Maybe you'll see  Maybe you'll realise  That beauty has more than one look  Size shape colour  Opening your heart was all it took  To see the beauty in others  We can embrace eachother more  Cause in you I saw A beautiful soul a beautiful human

If you're not thin you belong just as much as they do  If you're not thin you can care about your health  If you're not thin you can see yourself as beautiful too If you're not thin you can love yourself  If you're not thin you're worth just as much  Don't listen to unkindness, bullying and such  Cause if you're not thin you slay you own the day  If you're not thin you deserve to be included  Just as much  Cause if you're not thin  You're human too  You can have fun wear what you want  And listen you Are better than society the majority whoever who  Just keeps saying  If you're not thin  If you're not thin  If you're not thin 

🩷 I love myself  I love my body  I love myself  I love me  I love my stomach  I love my sides  I love my thighs  I love my hips  I love my arms  I love my legs  I love my face  I love my backside  I love my spirit  I love my soul  I love my heart  I love all of me  I love all parts of me I love myself  I love me  I love myself  I love me  I love myself no matter how big I am  I love myself no matter how big my body is  I love me 🩷 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷 Everybody is beautiful whatever their body size is 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

How many people do you think are held back in life by body image issues? Should anyone let Appearance or Body size hold them back? I don't think so.. I think everyone deserves to live life to the fullest and their full potential! I'm just trying to encourage you. 🙂

*I love my body just as it is  *I love all my body fat  *I love that my body is strong  *I love that my body functions in so many ways and allows me to do so many things  *I love that my body is functioning and healthy from the nutrition in my diet  *I love my fat arms  *I love my fat stomach  *I love my fat thighs  *I love all the fat on my body  *Beauty is subjective and I believe that I'm beautiful just the way I am  *Beautiful people come in all shapes and body sizes  *I love me, I love myself, I love all my body completely  *It's ok to be me  *Beauty and attractiveness can be about who I am on the inside  *I don't need anyone else to think I'm beautiful and acceptable, being accepted in the world and belonging in all places is my right because I belong just as much as everyone else and I am human and it is my human right to belong and exist in the world... I love myself  *I love me  *I love myself so mu...